Spotting abusive men dating
Like all sociopaths they are natural born, talented actors and have the astonishing ability to tell bare-faced lies and remain calm, utterly shameless if caught.They also can preseve cool demeanor in really dangerous situation.The problem is that due to their charm the victim typically fails to pay any attention to them.Here this page might, probably, help as, hopefully, it provides a framework and several checklists for analyzing such a person.
They are more patient (although the term patience and sociopath are mutually contradictive -- they are after instant gratification) and can hunt for a pray somewhat longer. And probably are more dangerous when you have them close by.This is not clear from the first watching of the film, but if you watch it the second time from the specific angle of Marquise de Merteuil behaviour as a sociopath, you can probably learn a few things about this condition.Similarly in Fatal Attraction you see how relentless they can stack the victim, using everything to keep the person on a short leash.They usually produce a very good, positive first impression. They do not allow themselves to show their anger for people on the same level, oe above them.Anger is reserved to subordinates and members of the immediate family.As a rule female sociopaths are much more vicious and vendettful than man sociopaths. They can break important promises and betray the partner, if it suits their needs, with such an ease that your jaw can simply drop.You can lean a lot about female psychopath by studying politicians. As bosses they cultivate "close circle" which is often selected on the base of blind loyalty, sometimes sweetened by sex or a promise of sex "really soon". Typically, they are somewhat sadistic, especially toward women -- which means that they experience pleasure from suffering of their victims." Paradoxically, most of the victims of female sociopaths are woman.So a female sociopath in the role of the manager is more dangerous to female subordinates then to male subordinates.In such situations, the devil is in details, but people in romantic mode and under influence of psychopathic charm have a strong confirmation bias, and as such are rarely able to see them, until too late.The same is actually true for upper management in the corporate environment: often they do not suspect whom they are dealing with and that their lack of fear, boldness, ability to take outsize risks, are contributing factors to their shrewd performance during the interviews.