Dating someone just out of a relationship
I guess the best thing to do right now is just keep talking to her on the phone and not become too attached to her.
If she is looking for more from me I will let her decide when the time is right because pressuring her into something that she is not ready for just hurts both of us.
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The fact that he is just out of a relationship is really not relevant, as that relationship may have been 'dead' for him long before it ended, or not. And you can only pick up on that after spending quite a lot of time with him in different situations. You want this new connection to be fresh and unique to the two of you, but for that to happen he has to have moved on, totally.
Does her name 'come up' in his conversations? As for the intimacy, you need to put the brakes on and be honest with him about your attraction to him as well as your need to keep this from becoming a big mistake.
I guess my question is what is the best approach to this..I wait a while and see how things go or do I ask her out on a date.
Last weekend she asked me to her house to watch a movie and when I was leaving I leaned in to kiss her and she turned it into a hug instead.
some men are not looking for emotionally wounded women who are vulernable and easy to take advantage of. My first thought in reading this is to beware of being the rebound.
It just depends if he likes her and wants to keep her around. It's never good and what a waste of time and effort to invest in someone that is actually emotionally unavailable as they just left someone. IF you are looking for more than just a casual thing, then look elsewhere.
I'd say to approach her in a way you talk on the phone awhile, since she is being very affectionate and its throwing you off.
In talking on the phone, I would discuss with her what she wants from you and make sure to not let things go too fast or she could end up using you as her rebound guy just to do it to you again.