Dating multiple men tips
He may press you for particulars on the competition (what they do for a living, how much they can bench-press).
If he does, make it clear, says Vogels, that you aren't going to spill.
"The more nonchalant you act about a guy's other dates, the more secure and confident you'll feel about yourself, which in turn makes you more attractive to men," says Vogels.
Jasmine, 31, found that keeping her cool — and her sense of humor — allowed her to get through an awkward other-woman moment.
You'll get a rush from the excitement and gain a sexy, dating-queen confidence at the same time.
"There are plenty of benefits to having lots of dates, not the least of which is that you'll project a self-assured, carefree attitude when meeting new people, men in particular," says Gould.
Whether it's chance, timing, an exact alignment of stars — hell, who cares what it is!
— you've found yourself on the receiving end of a man monsoon.
What to do if you find yourself suddenly realizing that you aren't the only chica on a guy's calendar? You can't change the situation (unless you want to give up your own roaming privileges), so make the best of it.
But being so politely planned out — limiting yourself to one guy per weekend or even per day — could cause you to lose momentum.
So go ahead and pack your PDA with appointments as tightly as you can swing it.
"I was at a bar with my date when a gorgeous blonde walked up to him and kissed him smack on the lips," she says. When my date tried to introduce me, she looked me up and down and refused to shake my hand.
After my initial shock, I had to giggle — this woman was making an ass of herself, while I was totally chill.