Dating a fat ig
There are times where one person might inspire change in another person, but it’s because the other person wanted the change themselves as well.
There are times where one person will get their act together because they’re afraid to lose something good or they’re determined to win something good.
When men act out in whatever way they act out, you’ll find what I just described at the heart of the matter: a deep feeling of separateness, insignificance and undesirability.
Most guys would never admit to feeling anything like that.
I had a girlfriend who was very flirtatious by nature.
And now, a little over a year into the relationship you’re disappointed that he’s still the same guy… People do this all the time, but it doesn’t make it right or sane.
The fact is, this whole pattern of people projecting a fantasy version of someone onto the actual person is ludicrous.
Some people have voids inside them and they forever try to fill them – with having other people desire them, with sex, with power, with money, etc.
In many cases, the void that people feel is caused by a feeling of separateness – a feeling that we don’t belong and aren’t acceptable.